Thursday, August 6, 2009

It aisn't funny anymore!!

Lets go for a movie, lets just skip the class,lets play carroms,lets play cricket, lets......this was the past what we all still cherish and it is what, that keeps pushing us ahead in this journey of life. Now all the decisions have been made for you, all you need to do is just follow them and everything else will fall in place(Just meet the deadline>>). This monotonousness has crept so deep into us that we are transforming ourselves into machines and fit perfectly into roles of terminator,terminating our own happiness..
when was the last time you got up and went out for a drive because the weather was so good that you just could not resist it??? okay let me answer it for you it was not in the recent past and never in the near future(if things continue the way they are !!!!)

The reason why we were happy when we were kids or in the prime of life was ,we did not care for anything but for us..we did what made us feel happy..as we grew older we have added so many parameters that it becomes tough even for Ace Ventura to put a smile on our face.

Let us see if by the end of this blog and with help of your comments we can do something more than just blabber.

i) Need less to say work place takes up most of our active lifetime these days, advantage of this: you are earning bread n butter, so as long as one enjoys being at work place for reasons other than earning it should be fun!
Now this could be possible only when you are doing what you like to do!!
Fine you really have practical problems like taking care of family and this job pays you more than any other job(the job you like!!!!) try and do a tradeoff ..choose job which really suits you.
Trust me you cannot keep yourself happy if you spend 10-15hours of day doing something you don't like and rest 9-14hrs thinking about what you have done just for sake of responsiblities on your head.. Life has more than this to offer work towards your goal its never too late especially when you are into your 20's almost reached 30's !

ii) Family is support system of any human being so make sure you are spending enough time with them,having said that let me not lie to you I hardly spend time with them these days :(..so fix this problem, we are working to take care of them and trying to provide them with all the comforts in the world and end up spending little time with them. You are working for them,yes but make sure they do get your share of time.

iii) Friends, wonderful beings on planet, one has no issues in sharing grievances with friends and one finds oneself when one is with friends!!! :) Do not miss out on this quick heal therapy..make more and more friends and have fun

In the end a lot has been said about balance between personal and work life,we all have realised by now that it is easier said than done and why there is so much literature on this topic..lets hope and wish that we all succeed in getting our priorities right on what is more important to us and stay successful and happy. Coz what good is a life if we don't live it!!!